Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Many Thanks!

Mike and I can't thank our friends and family enough for the outpouring of love we've had over the past few days. Our attitudes feel a lot more positive right now. Yesterday, we had our first official appointment (we've had phone convos) with our new doctor in Lexington. He wanted me to do a SHG, which I was not excited about...especially since I've had one before and it was probably the most painful thing I've experienced. A friend of mine also had two done and thought it was more painful than childbirth. I'll have to take her word for it, but it gives me confidence I could handle childbirth one day.

I was super nervous. Not only was it a painful test, it was with a new doctor (that I know personally), and a new facility. The nurse was extremely nice. The test was done quicker than I expected and with much less pain than expected. Mike's hand only got squeezed twice. I was so relieved. This new doctor is amazing! Plus the ease of the test was good news going forward. He thought he might have to put me under just to get my uterus and cervix to line up better, but he has a much easier plan (which I'll leave out the gruesome details). And it won't delay us any more.

We then had a meeting with his nurse to go over the schedule for the IVF process as well as all the injectibles that Mike will get to give me. The month of November is going to be crazy for us. We'll definitely need prayers and patience. One of the daily shots is to stimulate the ovaries. I asked her if it was like clomid, and she said clomid on steroids! If anyone remembers past posts, clomid gave me hot flashes and serious mood swings...so you may want to stay clear. I'm sure Mike will need his friends especially...just don't offer him any alcohol or caffeine...two definite no-no's during this process. Also, stress is a no-no, so if you play him in fantasy football, please let him win.

We were both feeling good and excited when leaving the doctor's office. We expected that I'd have to be shipped right to the couch for a long day of recovery...but I was good to enjoy the day. As much as we want to get excited that everything in this will run smoothly, we know what we are up against. The costs financially, emotionally, and physically will be tough. As I mentioned, the drugs will have some major side effects, but they can also be dangerous to my system. We're going to take one step at a time and trust God fully.

4 comments:

  1. Veronica - I am so glad that you and Mike feel so much better after going through the doctor. Ronny and I have been praying for you guys every night and will continue to pray throughout this process. I hope that it is God's will for you all to get pregnant after this and if not, something else will come along!! Thinking positive thoughts and sending prayers your way!

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  2. Veronica, you are both in our prayers!! Especially you…I cannot imagine clomid on steroids! Lyndsay was so emotional on clomid. Please take good care of yourself in the process!! We love and miss you both!!
    Blessings,
    Gay

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  3. We were so glad to hear how comfortable you both are with your new doctor & of your renewed hope! We pray for you both daily, asking God to bless you with children, and are excited for what He has planned. We love you both so much! Mom & Dad

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  4. Ben and Angela SmithOctober 23, 2013 at 10:36 PM

    Stay strong Idle's!! Much love and prayer being directed your way!

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